Recent content by Amuk

I've always preferred cats. Whether actual cats, or not. In fact, my last two subs were kitties. AND right now I have 4 [actual] kittens at my house. Don't know why I like cats more than I do dogs, but it's always been that way. I don't mind dogs either, but for some reason cats just seem more...

Surprisingly, I instantly guessed what this would be about, considering there is only one Sparrow on this forum that I am aware of. It's good to finally meet someone that is under Sparrow's wing (yes, pun intended). I'm sure you'll be very happy with him, he's a very wise man.

I'm with the both of you there. As I get older, I sometimes feel overwhelmed by the thought of "forever." Yet that does not mean I don't understand what it means. It pains me to see these people my age and younger throw around this word like it is nothing but play toy. To me it is like...

I'm sorry to hear that, OLP. Though I must ask, are your joints painful because of something like rheumatoid arthritis, or is it just a general pain that has just simply been there? If it's the latter, like sillylittlepet said, I would suggest stretching. However, I wouldn't say to just stretch...

Well, you already know you have one. lol

That's great. Honesty really is the best policy. To me, it relates deeply to trust, and trust is the most important thing in any type of relationship for me. It really makes me happy when I see such honesty like you have shown. OH, I guess I have seen that. Gotta love Daffy. Heck, the Loony...

....Thanks. Not sure I'm familiar with that cartoon though. Well, learning to live differently than you're used to takes time. After a while I'm sure you'll get accustomed to your new lifestyle choice, and I'm sure you'll love it even more. For now, just try your best not to disappoint too...

Actually, it won't necessarily kill you. You can eat meat raw, but it is much riskier to eat than cooked meat. In fact, there are two specific dishes that come to mind, both of which I have tried. A few years ago I was able to try a bit of carpaccio, an Italian appetizer, which is thinly sliced...

For me, it's the same as Sparrow, it depends on my mood. Unlike Sebastian though, I'll still use certain non-verbal commands even when a sub is blind-folded; physical commands similar to the ones you described actually. In fact, using silent communication is one of my favorite ways to give commands.

The list is practically infinite. People are diverse, and can differ in any number of ways. It would be nigh on impossible to accurately tell you what to do right. So as everyone is saying, ask him. It's really the only way to know what to do. Exactly. The most important thing is communication...

You bring up a good point maso_missive. The fact that you two just got in a relationship, BitchGirl and he's already having you look for a new sub is alarming on its own; however, it only makes it worse that you're inexperienced. You NEED to learn more about this before you jump in like this...

I third that. Sebastian is right, you really should have a talk. Don't put yourself into a potentially dangerous situation without first learning more.

I appreciate all of the advice. I think it's really helping. Though I will be going with a few people that I know, so I don't know how much I'll be displaying. And as for "hot," that depends on your definition. I'm going to have to agree with this, I don't think I could pull off the tux...

Well, Sebastian, I do have to say I like your style then. Looks like I'm ready to go because I have every single one of those items. Though I may just have to add one slight change to the mix. Most likely my shoes that is, as I don't feel like wearing my usual dress shoes throughout such an...

I definitely agree that it is more a persons demeanor that defines them, rather than appearance. Even then it can be difficult to tell, as some people have noted, and as I will expand upon. That's how it is for me... or at least most of the time. People usually don't see me as being the...