When do you know to submit truly without hesitation?

[zaika]

I ve got a question!

I am still young, and inexperienced in this world! Thus hereby i would like to ask advise from all of you.. when do you know that you can fully submit yourself to a Mistress/Master?
Do you know at the first meeting straight away.. this has potential. or arrrghhh no way!

Please let me know!

[george_]

if you get shaky and exited when you are with youre master mistres than you know that you will do almost anything ive been there sadly she wasnt dominant enough

[Salamanta]

If you want to experience true submission to a woman, then lay aside your male pride and humble yourself by submitting to her. Once she begins to take charge, allow her. It will not be easy at times but that is where this lifestyle comes in.

As your submissive desires will grow, allow them to overtake you. Submission is a desire but it is also a decision. And the more you submit to women, the stronger that desire to submit to women will grow and thus it will become easier to submit.

But keep in mind there should be a special woman for you, you shouldn't humble yourself and submit any woman. And when you meet this woman, you will feel it is Her with your heart, and you'll feel the moment. And once you begin to submit her, she will help to develop your submission as your submission will feed off of her dominance and thus it will grow even stronger. I wish you success in your journey.

[Magrathea]

I'm new as well, so this ends up being more a question than anything else. To the above post, Salamanta, I understand. I submitted, and I truly gave up my pride as I was put in a position where I became a bit overwhelmed and started crying. Multiple times. Playtime was immediately stopped so I could calm down. Is this kind of what you mean?

I wanted nothing more than to continue to submit the following day, if that adds perspective...

[lilsadistgirl]

I can ususally tell by just speaking to them. It takes a very strong person to submit me fully.
It is feeling inside you, do you get a errie feeling off a person or a calming effect. IMO i need that calming effect, for my Daddy will have to be calm and stern to ease me through our extreme sessions.

If you are nervous about submitting to a woman give her your man.... sit in the corner and watch, let him direct her cause he will know your limits, as time goes you will be so hot from watching them and your teasing, you will be willing to serve her without hesitation.

[M & m]

In my opinion... will be when you will be sure that He/She will ask you only what you are able to do, seen before He/She teached you How When and Why... this is the Trust, the Confidence, what MUST exist in a Dom/sub relationship, only there you will be sure... in my opinion.