new and need sum help

[gmcdrum]

eh hello.

for the first time, my girlfriend told me that she's into this. Im intimidated. Shes into the liking recieving pain. After lookin around, i see lots of info, but no kind of.. simple "how to" guide?
was wonderin if any1 cud help me out? like wat do i do as the pain causer? how can i ensure i dont actually hurt her etc?
thanks

[Alexia]

You need to talk to her and find out what she likes.

Communication is key here!

But you could try a good old fashioned bare bottomed spanking, bare handed and remember to start light, go heavy and gently caress her bottom often. It should take some time to do properly, and should do no real damage.

[drtraitor]

i'm kinda like the person who started this thread.

just kinda got ambushed by my girlfriend, who says she needs to cry in order to get through her life ok (it's a good stress reliever for her?).

anyway, tried talking to her about it, asking her what it is that she wants to get out of this, and specifically what she wants....

and that's the problem.

upon talking to her, she doesn't really know what she wants. she wants to "explore" it. but wtf does that mean? i'm a bit intimidated by this, but willing. just need to know where to start and what to do.

we started out spanking and that was fun until her roommates started getting concerned (and giving me dirty looks...as the sound of hand on ass carried through the walls).

advice is great. thanks in advance.

[Alexia]

Um . . . that could be a problem, sadly, both of you need to figure out what you both need to do to satisfy each other.

Unfortunately, you also have to explain (some how) things to your roomies or risk a Demestic Violence charge.

In a similar situation, we told them that we liked to play a bit rough, and no one was actually being hurt.