if you have a male by his balls, his mind will follow.

[Jillian]

Well, I often think how great it would be if that were only true and as simple as that! I believe if a woman wants to enslave her boyfriend, she has to get hold of his mind. His balls will for certain follow as will everything else.

What are your ideas about this?

[DearElliot]

I believe, not all men love women...a large percentage love ejaculating inside a woman..she is thought of as a receptacle for their pleasure. Such men are a waste of time for a woman, and not of interest here.. Like trying to use the carrot to tempt the carnivore. I feel perhaps only 10 or 15 percent of men truly love a women and her treasures and should a woman hold their balls she does control them totally.. The problem is women try to control men who are simply ejaculaters. I feel many women are drawn to men who enjoy simply using her sheath and discarding or ignoring her..until the need to use it arises again. Such women are doomed to- walk a few steps behind the men. I believe, if he doesnt worship your soiled panties, he probably isnt likely to react well to having his balls held.