new to bdsm and needing help

[skilar]

I am new to the whole bdsm stuff. The girl i have been seeing the past ywo years has decided this is what she wants to do. Of course I am willing to try very hard to please her but I know very little about this. Can someone offer any help?

[InnocentLooks]

This isn't really a good research site, it's more like a discussion site. I'd read up on it, then bring your extra questions here. Here are some good places to start:
http://www.unrealities.com/adult/ssbb/faq.htm
That will give you some basics.
http://www.leathernroses.com/general...sm.htm#marking
That's also good.
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm_scenarios.html
There are some good starter ideas.

[skilar]

Originally Posted by InnocentLooks

This isn't really a good research site, it's more like a discussion site. I'd read up on it, then bring your extra questions here. Here are some good places to start:
http://www.unrealities.com/adult/ssbb/faq.htm
That will give you some basics.
http://www.leathernroses.com/general...sm.htm#marking
That's also good.
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm_scenarios.html
There are some good starter ideas.

hey thanks! i have done alot of reading so far. i have fond alot of good stuff and thats any i am here now, is to find someone who would be will to help me fine tune (if you will) the things i have found. she is very willing and i dont want to ass it all up to where she wants to stop because of me.

again thanks for the post!