How old were you at that time?

[Submissive]

Originally Posted by curiousgirl

Very young:P under 10, i suppose, though never knew what to call it. I remember playing with my Barbie dolls rape scenes and stuff... my sis would never understand why i may like that.

While im still a virgin- never found a partner i would trust enough - i am really turned up by watching and thinking of light bondage... I would definitaly make a sub, though not a real one, i dont like pain , though love the idea of being exposed, humiliated tied... I would only let someone i trust and love do i - so i can be sure he would do only what i like too. But im sure once i find one, i will try.

So, im not sure if my "vote" counts or not.

Of course your vote counts. We all have to start somewhere some time.
I'm still a virgin myself and also looking for the right man I can love and trust.

Good luck in finding what you are looking for.

[curiousgirl]

Originally Posted by Submissive

Of course your vote counts. We all have to start somewhere some time.
I'm still a virgin myself and also looking for the right man I can love and trust.

Good luck in finding what you are looking for.

Thx It means a lot to know im not the only one inexperinced and already a perv. Good luck for you too

[susanparker]

For my husband, it started when he was a young boy. He got bare bottom hairbrush spankings from his stepmom and older stepsister and was truly raised to respect women.

[lilsadistgirl]

I remember having interest and questions around 10, then had my first bondage expereince at age 14.

[bettie_slave]

It started at a very young age for me, I've always loved older men, and love age play. I had many a rape fantasies from the age of 8. I remember being in my neighbours garden, touching myself cause I thought he was watching, when I was about 14. I have always had a thing for men in authority, such as teachers etc. I always thought I was sick, but it's just a fetish .

Bettie. xx

[kelsey anne]

Ever since I started masturbating, the only way I could cum is by thinking of females being spanked or taken roughly and dominated. So, I guess ever since then?

When it really developed was probably around age 14. Yet, I never let any high school guys see that side of me.

[Stargazer]

It's wierd... I can remember being very very young when I found it exciting to be tied up. I was probably as young as seven or eight when I would use clothes to tie my feet together at night time. Of course, being young and inexperienced, it wasn't particularly secure and I used to wake up in the morning with loads of knotted jumpers in my bed.

As a young teenager I discovered sexual arousal and managed to connect basic self bondage with masturbation, at fourteen I bought a set of cheapo metal handcuffs and cut the safety latch out of them and at eighteen, using some padlocks and a few lengths of chain lost my virginity to the woman who's now my wife.

The fact I started having a fascination with restraint when I was so young makes me wonder whether I'm a nut-case or just destined to be submissive despite current circumstances are trying to prevent it.

[Obsidian]

I was probably about 7-8 when I first started having bdsm fantasies, (Rape, bondage and slavery) however I when I hit puberty and eventually having sexual relationships they were always vanilla until I turned 18 and met my first (and only) Dom.

[ReallyGreen]

While I can't recall any specific early memories there was already a leather/BDSM theme in my head when I first started masturbating around 11-12. I was also incorporating some BDSM elements into my relationship with my first girlfriend at 15 (light bondage, blindfolds, menstrual worship, etc), but that was before the internet so we really weren't able to do most kinky things because we were just plain ignorant of them (kids today have no idea how much like sucked back yonder).

[nix]

ever since I was little I used to like being sat on and (pointlessly) ordered around by people, and when I was in my early teens I had a few friends who enjoyed doing all kinds of (very tame in retrospect) dominating things to me in private. It was around then that I realised what it was that I was doing and enjoying and I've never looked back.
I'm a firm believer in women being the superior sex to us men, but I still count myself as a switch because submissive women still get me hard - but in the way that people like watching violent films. they disagree with the violence, but still find the film exciting - if you get what I mean.

[west01]

I was about 17 when i discovered i like bdsm, sure I dind't know the name bdsm. I started to search the internet, pictures and movies. And then I started some self bondage and so i'm a sub today.

[subton]

I was 14 when I first realised I liked being tied up, I used to use any excuse I could think of to get the local girls to tie me up, but I was in my early 20s before I realised that there were other people who shared the same ideas

[InnocentLooks]

I find this poll really interesting. I liked being tied up and dominating men as long as I can remember. I started having rape/torture/slavery fantasies before I even really knew how sex worked... like 10, maybe?

[yasha32]

i was raised in a, for lack of a better term, crappy household where spanking (more like kicking our ass) was normal. The whole idea of bdsm scared me up until juinor year of high school when my current fiance called me master and bought herself a collar and leash. this was a whole new way to look at everything, and since then we've been hooked.

[Ted Michael Morgan]

I recall my first encounter with a bonadage magazine and I was astonished that it turned me on as much as it did. I had always seen images of women tied up but those were old police magazines and did nothing for me. The bondage magazine featured a pretty girl in white leather. I was just stunned that it turn me on.